The Art Of Coaching

E326 | What a Rap Beef Can Teach You About Business

You’re on edge.  Heart is pounding.  Mind is racing.  We’ve all been confronted by someone either in-person, over email, or on social media who questioned our personal or professional integrity.  If you haven’t, buckle up.

It doesn’t matter what genre of music you like, if you have paid attention to the news at all over the past few months, you’ve heard of the beef between the artists Drake and Kendrick Lamar.  Everyone from the New York Times to the President of the United States have commented on it.  A lot of lessons can be learned from peeling back the layers of societal events like these, and today’s episode is going to challenge you to think critically about things you may have previously just left in the tabloids.

In this episode we cover:

• The economic impact of public disputes and what it can teach us about marketing
• How to leverage publicity from a conflict to define your brand and rally your followers
• The tactical considerations when responding to an attack and the importance of timing
• What to do if you fall short and how to come back stronger in the future

This episode was a little different than normal shows and we had a lot of fun recording this one.  If you would like to hear more like this, let us know! Always feel free to reach out if you have any questions, concerns or other feedback to share at info@artofcoaching.com.  We would love to hear from you!

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Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous.  Let’s be frank, most supplements are BS.  The industry is full of overhyped charlatans that underdeliver products that do not work.  Not Momentus.  Their mission is to provide practical nutritional support for people who want to improve their health and fitness.  Their supplements go through the rigorous process of NSF certification, so you can trust what is on the bottle is what you’re ingesting.  They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do.  Fundamentals NOT fluff.  Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%!

E325 | Battling Inner Demons: How to Work Out of a Creative Funk

Struggling with your work?  Feel like you’re not hitting the mark?  You’re not alone.  Today’s chat dives deep into what it feels like when nothing seems to work and how to find your way out.

In Dr. Seuss’s book “Oh, the Place You’ll Go!”, he writes “And when you're in a Slump,

you're not in for much fun.  Un-slumping yourself is not easily done.”  We’ve ALL been there and no one or nothing can pull you out.  It’s an inner struggle that we all go through and must conquer, and to be honest we don’t really have a choice.

In this episode we cover:

• Why some common advice just doesn’t help and what to look out for instead
• Tips on how to step back and see your work differently, gaining new insights that matter
• Simple strategies to better understand your audience, ensuring your work resonates
• How to tackle self doubt head-on, paving the way for more authentic and satisfying work

It's hard to get out of your own head if you never get a chance to talk out some of the issues or problems you're struggling with.  For this exact reason, we offer 1-on-1 Art of Coaching virtual mentoring. Coaches need coaches too, and that's the value we can provide to you if you let us. Submit a request form today for more information!

Speaker School -  This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, one filled with people who want you to succeed, and are there to give you the feedback and encouragement you need to take steps forward.  Get the message you’ve been wrestling around with in your head out to the world. Join us in BEAUTIFUL Phoenix, AZ on June 1st and 2nd!.  We keep the number of participants small, so make sure to secure your spot today!

We can’t say this enough, so we’ll say it again - WE VALUE YOUR FEEDBACK!  If you liked the “rant” style of this episode, let us know and we can keep them coming.  If you have any questions, concerns or other feedback to share, please reach out to use directly at info@artofcoaching.com.  We would love to hear from you!

E324 | How to Get Good at Small Talk Even if You Hate It

Have you ever been in the middle of a conversation and thought “can we just cut to the chase?”  

For some people small talk seems like a complete waste of time, a painful variation of the verbal headlock.  There are other people who seem to naturally flow through these conversations using them to build relationships with a diverse group of people, while simultaneously keeping their finger on the pulse of what’s happening in their communities.

In today’s episode, we dive deep on these surface level conversations in a way that no one has before.  We discuss:

• The ramifications of refusing to engage in them and their evolutionary importance
• How our drives play a direct role in our approach and goals for these interactions 
• Tips to manage and mitigate the cognitive load these conversations cost
• Practical strategies for navigating and reaping the benefits from small talk

Today’s episode was made as a result of listener questions and situations attendees at our latest workshop wanted help with.  Reach out to us at info@artofcoaching.com or visit artofcoaching.com/question if there’s something you’d like to hear about on the podcast.

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E130: How Understanding Drives Helps Build Buy-In

Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous.  Let’s be frank, most supplements are BS.  The industry is full of overhyped charlatans that underdeliver products that do not work.  Not Momentus.  Their mission is to provide practical nutritional support for people who want to improve their health and fitness.  Their supplements go through the rigorous process of NSF certification, so you can trust what is on the bottle is what you’re ingesting.  They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do.  Fundamentals NOT fluff.  Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%!

On June 1st - 2nd we’re hosting our Speaker School in Phoenix, AZ, where you can find your voice and refine your message in a judgment-free environment using our research backed evaluation, video analysis, and feedback from your fellow attendees.  We’ll also cover topics on slide design, how to present more effectively, and how to be more articulate.  This is for everyone ranging from those who need more confidence and are battling social anxiety, to someone who is getting paid to speak in front of large numbers.  We keep the number of participants to 10 or less to make sure you get enough reps.  Spots are limited, so lock yours in today HERE!

E323 | How to Respond When Someone Talks Down to You

E322 | A Better Way to Organize Your Thoughts: Part 1

You have to admit, it happens a lot.  You’ll be doing something mundane and BOOM, an amazing idea hits you that you’ll want to remember for later.  Only you don’t, and all of that potential slips away…  

The amount of books that go unwritten, keynote speeches undelivered, businesses or products not developed - the list is endless.  High-performers recognize the power of capturing these thoughts and have a system for seizing and converting them into something tangible that can add value to the world and change people’s lives. 

As with any topic, before you can figure out how to make it the most applicable to you, we must start from the beginning.  In this podcast we discuss:

• How capturing ideas can reduce cognitive load
• Developing a flexible structure that doesn’t stifle your personality 
• Tips for organizing thoughts and ideas so you can recall them when the time is right
• The many benefits of using voice memos that you’ve probably never considered before

We created this episode from the overwhelming number of responses we had to our episode with Andrew Coates on Information Overload.  If you’d like us to continue this series, or have suggestions or questions you’d like covered in a future episode, let us know at artofcoaching.com/question.  

If you struggle with turning your ideas into actions we offer virtual one to one mentoring to tailor our services to best fit your needs, on your schedule!  Take the next step by emailing us at info@artofcoaching.com.  We can’t wait to hear from you!

Compiling thoughts and organizing them into a well-crafted message is the essence of public speaking.  We’ll walk you through this process step-by-step, give you the reps you need to refine your message, and specific feedback through a research-backed evaluation at our only Speaker School of the year June 1st & 2nd in Phoenix, AZ.  Whether you’d like to keynote and develop a speaking career or just get better being in front of people, this event is a MUST.  If you have any questions and want to find out if this, or any of our other  live events are for you, reach out at info@artofcoaching.com and we’ll figure out how we can help.

This is also our EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT LAST CALL for The Apprenticeship In Calgary, Canada June 22nd & 23rd!  Sign up before the April 21st deadline and SAVE UP TO $200!   Our trips North of the border are going to be limited for the next 18 months.  Come and see us!

E321 | Practical Strategies for Setting and Managing Expectations

"What a letdown! I expected more…"

We’ve all felt this way when something fails to meet our expectations.  It’s one thing if it’s a product we bought off Amazon or an over-hyped movie, but what if it’s something bigger?  What if a misstep in communication hurts us professionally or negatively impacts a personal relationship?  

Today’s episode is your how-to, practical guide to setting and managing expectations.  If done well, we can preemptively address potential misunderstandings and conflicts and allocate more of our resources where we need them most.  

Over the course of this episode, we’ll discuss:

• The reasons setting expectations is critical from a psychological standpoint
• Practical steps to earn trust with new colleagues 
• Aspects to consider when establishing new boundaries in a personal relationship
• Speaking points you can use tomorrow with your team to jumpstart buy-in

This episode was directly inspired by questions submitted by our listeners.  If you’d like to submit a topic for us to cover in a future episode, visit artofcoaching.com/question.  If you want a deeper dive into anything we do or want hands-on guidance on a personal issue, we offer live events and virtual one-to-one mentoring.  For options email us at info@artofcoaching.com - we’d love to help!

Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous.  Let’s be frank, most supplements are BS.  The industry is full of overhyped charlatans that underdeliver products that do not work.  Not Momentus.  Their mission is to provide practical nutritional support for people who want to improve their health and fitness.  Their supplements go through the rigorous process of NSF certification, so you can trust what is on the bottle is what you’re ingesting.  They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do.  Fundamentals NOT fluff.  Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%!

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E320 | Andrew Coates: How to Conquer Information Overload

The influx of new information is relentless.  It never stops coming.  It never will.

How can we fight back against this onslaught?   What principles can we use to guide and harness our focus?

Our guest today has an uncanny ability to absorb, analyze, and apply vast amounts of information across diverse subjects.  Andrew Coates is a coach, writer, and speaker.  He’s written for several publications, including Men’s Health and Muscle and Fitness, and is the host of The Lift Free and Die Hard Podcast.  

In this episode, we discuss:

• How to optimize your learning process 
• Time management and when to adjust priorities
• Tools for capturing ideas and turning them into impactful content
• How to self monitor and avoid burnout

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If you’d like to connect with Andrew on social media or ask him a question directly, you can find him on Instagram at @andrewcoatesfitness.  You can also read his articles, blog posts, and more at www.andrewcoatesfitness.com. 

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E273: The Productivity Myth: Tips For Making Sustainable Progress Without Sacrificing Your Sanity

On June 1st - 2nd we’re hosting our Speaker School in Phoenix, AZ, where you can find your voice and refine your message in a judgment-free environment using our research backed evaluation, video analysis, and feedback from your fellow attendees.  We’ll also cover topics on slide design, how to present more effectively, and how to be more articulate.  This is for everyone ranging from those who need more confidence and are battling social anxiety, to someone who is getting paid to speak in front of large numbers.  We keep the number of participants to 10 or less to make sure you get enough reps.  Spots are limited, so lock yours in today HERE!

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E319 | Taylor Somerville: Stress Management for High-Achievers

We’ve heard it all before.  Stay calm. Relax. Carve out some time for yourself.

But let’s face it - stress is part of the human condition. Is there anything we can realistically do to manage this force that has the potential to wreak havoc on our lives?

Our guest today has fought this battle and emerged a better version of himself.  Taylor Somerville spent 15 years in the investment business, but the stress and anxiety of it left him deep in burnout .  So, he left that all behind, and in 2018 he founded Symmetry, a company that helps organizations, athletes, and individuals across multiple spectrums improve their own stress management, performance, and overall health and wellness.  

In today’s episode, we discuss:

• What it takes to pivot in your career 
• How to find your audience and cultivate your niche
• Strategies and tools to harness the power of breathwork
• How reframing can be a powerful tool for stress management

Referenced Resources:

If you’d learn more about Taylor and Symmetry’s services, visit www.symmetry.live and follow them on Instagram at @symmetry.live. 

Today’s show is brought to you by Momentous.  When it comes to your health, the best thing you can do is control the controllables. And that is why we are proud to partner with companies like Momentous, who remain focused on providing and developing products that will keep your body running at its best. If you’re looking for a way to boost your protein intake, elevate your workouts, or supplement your diet, use code: BRETT15 for 15% off your order.

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Referenced Material:Entrepreneur Essentials: Pt 1, Pt 2, and Pt 3

E318 | Donald Miller: How to Build a Profitable Coaching Business

Have you been dying to build a business in Coaching or another passion, but have no idea where to start?  If you don’t take action, will it turn into a regret that you’ll never forgive yourself for?

Our guest today has helped countless people reach business success they had never thought was possible.  Donald Miller is the CEO of Story Brand and Business Made Simple.  He’s also the Host of the Coach Builder youtube channel, and the author of several best selling books including: Building  Story Brand, Marking Made Simple, and How To Grow Your Small Business.  In this episode we dive deep into his new book Coach Builder and cover many topics including:

• The importance of defining your brand
• What to look for when hiring new employees or a virtual assistant
• How long it realistically takes to become a trusted authority
• Guidelines for creating your first high-revenue product
• The must-use tools for entrepreneurs at any level 

Referenced Resources:

If you’d like to order Donald’s new book, please visit www.coachbuilder.com/artofcoaching and receive a Bonus Webinar: How To Sell Your Coaching Services!

Ironically, during the episode Donald uses an example for a business idea of a workshop around developing keynote presentations.  If that type of product would interest you, we have good news!  On June 1st - 2nd we’re hosting our Speaker School in Phoenix, AZ.  Our team has experience delivering keynotes to industry leaders from Microsoft, Facebook, Wells Fargo, several Universities, and Professional Sport organizations.  This workshop isn’t just for experienced speakers, it’s also for those who want to find their voice or ease the social anxiety that comes with public speaking.  We keep the number of participants to 10 or less to make sure you get the experience and feedback you deserve. Sign ups are open now and you can take advantage of Early Bird Special and save up to $200!  Hurry, offer expires April 1st!

If you haven’t already, make sure you sign up for our Newsletter and stay up to date on all of our Courses and Live Events.

E317 | Tyson Shumway: Law Enforcement Lessons for De-Escalating Conflict

Imagine approaching a vehicle or entering a building, not knowing if the people inside wanted to do you harm.  The ability to maintain composure in high risk situations like this can be the difference between going home to your family or being rushed to the hospital.

That statement isn’t just hyperbole, it’s woven into Tyson Shumway’s daily life.  Tyson has worn a number of hats along with his body armor over his 16 year career as a police officer.  He began his career on the Southside of Los Angeles before transitioning to SWAT, where he was a team member for 7 years.  In addition, he has also taught cadets at the police academy and is currently on patrol in Sacramento.  His passion for teaching has carried over to his off-duty time where he conducts firearms training for Fieldcraft Survival and is a Facilitator with Art of Coaching.  

In today’s episode, we:

• Discuss how a law enforcement professional approaches de-escalating conflict
• Learn how to manage our emotions in tense situations
• Weigh the costs of engaging in office politics
• Explore the benefits of leveraging our inner anti-hero

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One recurring frustration from today’s episode was the lack of opportunities to practice communication skills.  On June 1st - 2nd we’re hosting our Speaker School in Phoenix, AZ, where you can find your voice and refine your message in a judgment-free environment using our research backed evaluation, video analysis, and feedback from your fellow attendees.  We’ll also cover topics on slide design, how to present more effectively, and how to be more articulate.  This is for everyone ranging from those who need more confidence and are battling social anxiety, to someone who is getting paid to speak in front of large numbers.  We keep the number of participants to 10 or less to make sure you get enough reps. Sign ups are open now and you can take advantage of Early Bird Special and save up to $200!  Hurry, offer expires April 1st!

If you enjoyed this episode and are a new listener, we are dying to know you and be a key resource for you achieving your goals.  Shoot us an email at info@artofcoaching.com and let us know how we can help.  Make sure you sign up for our Newsletter and stay up to date on all of our Courses and Live Events. 

Referenced Material:

E240: The 4 Styles Of Communication

E282: Understanding Neurodiversity: Strategies For Clear Communication And Collaborative Leadership

Today’s show is brought to you by one of our oldest partners, Momentous.  When it comes to your health, the best thing you can do is control the controllables. And that is why we are proud to partner with companies like Momentous, who remain focused on providing and developing products that will keep your body running at its best. If you’re looking for a way to boost your protein intake, elevate your workouts, or supplement your diet, use code: BRETT15 for 15% off your order.